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Friday, May 3, 2013


10 Things Never To Say In A Relationship 

 Generally speaking you should be yourself and be able to say whatever you want when you’re in a relationship. But exercise caution and never find yourself uttering these lines if you don’t want to end up in the doghouse: 


1.      “My ex always used to do __________”. They don’t want to hear about how your ex used to cook for you all the time. Or how they worked out every day. Or anything about them at all, really.

2.      “You’re like a brother/sister to me”. Major romance killer. You are not siblings, so steer clear of any familial comparisons.

3.      “Why can’t you be more like ________?” Don’t compare your partner to someone else or expect him or her to live up to someone else’s standards. No one wants to hear that you think someone else is doing something better than they are.

4.      “If you know what’s good for you, you’ll ________”. No one wants to feel like they’re being forced to act a certain way. You are not the boss of your boyfriend or girlfriend and you don’t have the right to order them around to threaten them.

5.      “__________ is so hot”. Maybe you think your neighbor is gorgeous, but keep that thought to yourself.

6.      “If you really loved me you’d _______”. Lay off the guilt trip. If you want them to do something just ask nicely or simply tell them what you expect from them.

7.      “You’d look better if _________”. Tell them that they look great, even if they don’t think so. Don’t offer suggestions on how they can improve their appearance. Ever.

8.      “Your brother is such a loser”. Don’t bash their friends or family. Even if what you’re saying is true, no one likes to hear criticism about their loved ones. Bite your tongue and vent to a friend if you really must.

9.      “You don’t care as much as I do”. Statements like this are a recipe for disaster because there is no way to prove it and you’ll both end of getting defensive. 

10.  “That’s a dumb idea”. When they open up to you and talk about their goals and ideas the last thing you want to do is shut them down. You don’t have to agree with every idea they have but try to find a more tactful way to voice it.

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