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You've gotta dance like nobody's watching. Love like you'll never be hurt. Sing like there's nobody listening. And love like it's heaven on earth. -William W. Purkey
Agreed so much with this quote. Life is never going to be easy, it's full of ups and downs. You will just have to stay strong, pretend that nothing bad really happen and move on.
I have learnt so much for the past few days of not updating here. Lots of arguments and disagreements happened to my boyfriend and I. Tears were shed, hearts were hurt, brains were aching and so on... There's still a long way to go, there might be more arguments/disagreements or even misunderstanding in the long run. Hopefully we had pull through it successfully, but all I can say I've tried my best and understanding that it takes two hands to clap. Yes, even though we're both ain't together anymore, but I'm still gonna try my best to win him back. I'm sorry for being so stubborn/demanding at times too. I promised I'll be a good girl. ( Don't bother asking me what had happened though.)
A relationship too smooth is a weak relationship as they have yet to face any challenges together.
There are many challenges in life. Being able to face each and everyone of them together is something that makes your relationship stronger. If you're not up to it, giving up/breaking up when obstacles occur, not committed enough, then just forget about this relationship cause it would have been a total waste of time. This is life. Reality hurts.
If your thinking is still 'Love is such a wonderful thing', then you are SO WRONG. Think again, just like any other things, there are stages to a relationship.
See that ? There's "Misery"? Yes, that's when the both of you struggle. Also known as a stage that puts your relationship to a challenge.
Challenges that will determine whether the both of you are really ready. Such challenges may include nitty gritty problems/matters like communication, not turning up for dates or big problems like betrayal, dishonesty and so on. It can also be that one/both of you had just entered a new environment (Eg. From a student to a working adult).
Why is that a challenge, you might wanna ask. Simple! When you get to meet more and more people, you might have the urge to make some comparison like "Hey, that girl has got good looks, nice figure, sweet attitude and same interest!" That is when you will think that you can get someone better and there,problem.
It can also be problems like your guy is serving his country (National Service) which takes approximately 2 years or more. Or that your girl is on a long business trip overseas. You will then see this as a problem because suddenly, your partner is not always going to be by your side.
There are tons of possible problems in this stage. If the both of you really manage to pull it through, you will enter the awakening stage. A stage where you start to realize the importance of each other in your lives and starts to settle down.
After that, after all that, you will finally enter the true love stage where marriage is possible.
Couples who cried hugging each other during their wedding are those who been through thick and thin together and they are those who will really last and really love each other." - Alex Ang
Notice that I did not touch on the Honeymoon and Disillusionment stage? It is because, there won't be so much of a problem there. These two stages are stages that you might want to treasure the most because it might turn into some form of encouragement for the later stages of this relationship. When problem comes, you can think back at how sweet the both of you use to be, how committed the both of you were back then, then decide whether to continue.
But if there are already problems happening at the starting of your relationship, don't panic. It might just mean that the both of you are slowly adapting to each other, which is nothing bad. On the other hand if you find yourself getting really hurt, or the word "break" often comes in during the first 2 stages, then you know very well that the both of you are seriously just playing around and not taking anything seriously.
It's not going to be that easy, are you ready to overcome all the challenges together with your other half?
[♔], The Princess
I'm also known as .
#'- Katherine Ong;-
#'- Single & unavailable;-
#'- 14AUG;LEO;-
#'- Training to be a successful hairstylist;-
She's a very simple girl.
She's friendly & sensitive.
She cry easily. x:
She's weak against cute person/stuffs/animals.♥
Surprises make her day! :D
She will be a hyper crazy girl when she's happy.
Hey boy, welcome to my life. How long will you stay by my side this time ?
疑いなく、あなたが私が夢を見るすべてです. 私はとてもあなたを愛して.
Time flies, we began as strangers> friends> couple> strangers>friends and now a couple again. I might not be the best and I know, but at least I gave you all my heart. I love you and I miss you more than words can tell. I know I can only make it to forever if it's only with you baby. I promised to be there for you always, through the ups and downs. We will go through everything together. Please don't ever leave me, because i know I'll never gonna do that. Let's prove to the others out there, love do lasts baby. ♥
Love
Friday, September 7, 2012
You've gotta dance like nobody's watching. Love like you'll never be hurt. Sing like there's nobody listening. And love like it's heaven on earth. -William W. Purkey
Agreed so much with this quote. Life is never going to be easy, it's full of ups and downs. You will just have to stay strong, pretend that nothing bad really happen and move on.
I have learnt so much for the past few days of not updating here. Lots of arguments and disagreements happened to my boyfriend and I. Tears were shed, hearts were hurt, brains were aching and so on... There's still a long way to go, there might be more arguments/disagreements or even misunderstanding in the long run. Hopefully we had pull through it successfully, but all I can say I've tried my best and understanding that it takes two hands to clap. Yes, even though we're both ain't together anymore, but I'm still gonna try my best to win him back. I'm sorry for being so stubborn/demanding at times too. I promised I'll be a good girl. ( Don't bother asking me what had happened though.)
A relationship too smooth is a weak relationship as they have yet to face any challenges together.
There are many challenges in life. Being able to face each and everyone of them together is something that makes your relationship stronger. If you're not up to it, giving up/breaking up when obstacles occur, not committed enough, then just forget about this relationship cause it would have been a total waste of time. This is life. Reality hurts.
If your thinking is still 'Love is such a wonderful thing', then you are SO WRONG. Think again, just like any other things, there are stages to a relationship.
See that ? There's "Misery"? Yes, that's when the both of you struggle. Also known as a stage that puts your relationship to a challenge.
Challenges that will determine whether the both of you are really ready. Such challenges may include nitty gritty problems/matters like communication, not turning up for dates or big problems like betrayal, dishonesty and so on. It can also be that one/both of you had just entered a new environment (Eg. From a student to a working adult).
Why is that a challenge, you might wanna ask. Simple! When you get to meet more and more people, you might have the urge to make some comparison like "Hey, that girl has got good looks, nice figure, sweet attitude and same interest!" That is when you will think that you can get someone better and there,problem.
It can also be problems like your guy is serving his country (National Service) which takes approximately 2 years or more. Or that your girl is on a long business trip overseas. You will then see this as a problem because suddenly, your partner is not always going to be by your side.
There are tons of possible problems in this stage. If the both of you really manage to pull it through, you will enter the awakening stage. A stage where you start to realize the importance of each other in your lives and starts to settle down.
After that, after all that, you will finally enter the true love stage where marriage is possible.
Couples who cried hugging each other during their wedding are those who been through thick and thin together and they are those who will really last and really love each other." - Alex Ang
Notice that I did not touch on the Honeymoon and Disillusionment stage? It is because, there won't be so much of a problem there. These two stages are stages that you might want to treasure the most because it might turn into some form of encouragement for the later stages of this relationship. When problem comes, you can think back at how sweet the both of you use to be, how committed the both of you were back then, then decide whether to continue.
But if there are already problems happening at the starting of your relationship, don't panic. It might just mean that the both of you are slowly adapting to each other, which is nothing bad. On the other hand if you find yourself getting really hurt, or the word "break" often comes in during the first 2 stages, then you know very well that the both of you are seriously just playing around and not taking anything seriously.
It's not going to be that easy, are you ready to overcome all the challenges together with your other half?
Wish Upon a Star ...
SWEET AND FOREVER(:
# Forever sweet and lOvely family ❤
# Daddy & Mummy to be healthy, not forgetting my pets too! ❤ # Baby will always be happy. (:
# No conflicts with baby.
# Stay in his arm forever !
# Baby will spend mOre time with me.
# No matter wht happen, we wld always be tgt. {:
# Don't ever neglect each other !!
# Last long with my boyf, if it's possible.
COME ASAP(: *lOves*
# Night Life ~
# MORE shopping sprees :D
# Oversea trip to JB, KL, BKK, Taiwan, Japan & so on.
GREEDY MEEE! X33
# Brown, Violet & Gold contact lens.
# Dye/Highlight.
# Hair Treatment.
# More tops, belts, dresses & heels!
# A Burberry bag maybe?
# Fake friends/backstabbers/players etc to be banish from my life.
# To be love & pampered.
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